One thing you say a lot is that the universe doesn't measure time and that time is a human concept. Can you expand on that?
-Missy, Libra
Yes, great question. I hope this helps you understand. Time was invented by humans and is used by humans as a relationship tool.
Think of the universe as an environment creator, similar to a computer program. The environment you live in, including all things you might consider "good" or "bad," is of your own creation. You created your environment by the decisions you made and the amount of energy you invested in these creations.
No soul can evolve without spiritual relationships, and the environment you created is nothing but relationships. You have relationships with all the people you can see in your environment, as well as all the creatures and objects around you. These exist in your universe because you have chosen them to be here.
If you can grasp this concept, you can learn how to manipulate your environment by harnessing the energy of your soul. The most powerful thing about this statement is that your ability to create is only limited by your ability to believe what you can accomplish.
The process for this is well defined on the website, but starts with Spiritual Enlightenment. Think of one thing you would change right now in your environment, what would it be? Spiritual enlightenment requires you to invest energy in what you would create. It is totally a research task. Sounds easy enough right? The universe adds Temptations to take you from the path you wish to achieve. It truly is the perfect computer program for evolving your soul.
The next steps, Spiritual Awareness and Spiritual Growth teach you how to implement and invest energy in creating the future you wish to experience.
Suppose you picked something you want to change in your environment like I want to lose 15 pounds. How long will that take?
- And that is why the universe doesn't measure time.
- It also defines why time is a human concept.
How fast you will accomplish the goal of losing 15 pounds is totally based on the decisions you will make and the amount of energy you will work at changing your environment. If you exercise three hours a day and take in no more than 1,000 calories a day, you will lose 15 pounds faster than if you decide to buy some quick-fix diet machine or a bottle of pills that require no investment of energy.
Either way, you will not know exactly how long it will take. The universe doesn't have time, so it doesn't care. The universe does measure energy. Since no two bodies are the same, the amount of energy to lose 15 pounds is different for everyone. But it does know how much energy you will need to invest to make this goal a reality, and that is not shared information.
This applies to anything you want to change in your environment. Here, "spiritual" means to look within. It only when you can connect to what your soul sees that you learn to evolve it. "Evolve" means to create a different version of yourself.
It is why you are here.
In the next life, when you cross over, there is no time or energy required to do anything. All is instant. What you think or create simply becomes. Your relationships are also instant. All is known, there are no private thoughts.
When I crossed over from my near-death experiences, I had a taste of it. I would ask, "Am I dead?" The universe would reply "You were, now you're alive...in terms you can understand right now."
In this version of ourselves, work, effort, and energy are required to evolve. It is the perfect yin-yang balance compared to the next stage of your soul's evolution where all is instant and ongoing.
Today, your soul is in a vessel that is deteriorating to a point where it can no longer exist. Learning how to invest in what you want to achieve is considered a privilege you have earned to be here. Your souls can't learn what to efficiency create instantly, if you don't learn how to create when it takes effort.
And if you choose not to invest energy, you have still made a decision the universe will use to create your environment. It will stay the same, or decline to prompt you into action. Complaining or pointing fingers is not investing energy in creating the future you want to experience.
You can only evolve your own soul and how evolved you become, and all the wonders you have the option to experience are up to you. If you take the worry of "how long will it take" out of the equation, you'll achieve more, in less time, than you can imagine right now.
Love and light,
Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com
Hi Jordan, my story has many aspects to it to which I am trying to get my head around so bear with me here.
I am 9 months separated from my husband of 12 years. I did the leaving because I knew he wouldn't, but we both knew we had come to the end of our time together. My reasons were varied but in the end we just were not compatible (he's a Pisces). I found out after I left that he had cheated on me the year before and I was devastated. I had entertained notions that we could maybe make things work if we took some space but that went out the window for me after he told me this.
I, on the other hand played my own part (of course, takes two!)in our eventual deterioration. Eight years ago I fell for one of our friends and kept it to myself and lived in a state of denial until I left last year.
Two months after I left I told my friend how I felt but was clear that I held no expectations of him, that I could not expect him to feel the same way but that I was unable to keep my feelings for him to myself any longer. He took some space from me for a little while (he's a Libra) but 2 weeks later at a party he made a move and I responded. I was in no way prepared to deal with this relationship and found myself dealing with such strong emotional attachment that he ended it 2 months later. Our friendship suffered and he cut himself off from me.
Then I found out that my husband was in a new relationship. I had the unfortunate experience of trying to let go of two loves at once and I do not recommend it. I have two young children and it was hard to imagine them playing happy family all together and I eventually fell to pieces. In March I asked my husband for our house back which he was still in, I could not make ends meet in the house I was renting and the children wanted to be in their own home. We built the house together 13 years ago, off the grid, private water, no rent and no central heating just wood stoves. And my wonderful garden. Healing for me is going to entail coming back to what we had created, the home our children loved and embracing what we had so I could finally let it go.
But it's not so easy, the land is owned by friends and now they only want my ex there and not me. He unwillingly vouched for me and we all agreed that the kids and I would move back. But only after we go to a mediation appointment and get it in writing. This morning I had a therapy session and it brought a lot up for me and sadly I had a massive argument with my ex and he is now reconsidering his position on the house. He holds the cards on this one and I am so angry and disappointed in myself for possibly sabotaging what is so important to me, to go home to my garden and heal.
I need guidance in how to feel at peace with where I am right now. I can't make him move any faster but I am desperate to find my peace. We live close so I see his girlfriend coming and going from our house, my house. In my bed. In my kitchen using my stuff. In my children's rooms that I painted and decorated, I just can't handle it. He has no compassion for me and why would he. I am at a point of personal transformation, I cannot hold onto the person I was, the anger, the resentment. If I want my Libra back, and I do, I love him and I believe he's the one, I need to make some serious changes within. Things are definitely changing for me but I am not reaching my full potential yet and instead have taken massive steps backward.
-Peace Frog, Virgo
Good Day Peace Frog,
Much of the energy in your question seems to revolve around your own needs. Successful relationships are based on what you give, not what you give. Without going through are particulars, there are numerous signs that the relationships you have been of did not seem destined to succeed. As of today, I would strongly suggest you let the past go, and focus your energy on the future. For example, your husband’s girlfriend is not sleeping in your bed. It is not your bed any longer.
By initiating a divorce, you choose to create a new future. The “peace” you are seeking can from creating this new life for yourself, but you can’t do it by living in, and be emotionally connect to the past.
The primary energy of the Virgo Soul is “I Analyze.” This often leads to tons of “What if” questions that can distract you from defining and working towards new relationship goals. You can harness this energy to create the future you want to experience.
Think of your past relationships as a learning experience. There were some parts of them you enjoyed, keep those for creating your new life, and exclude the parts that were less favorable. The next step is to work at healing yourself so you can go into your next relationship with confidence and energy that contributes instead of energy that is needy or requires reassurance. What aspects of the current version of yourself would you improve?
If you were to create the perfect soul mate on a piece of paper, it is equally important to become the soul that your future soul mate is creating on his piece of paper right now. If you focus your energy on creating the future you wish to experience, you will get a better return on your investment in the long run.
I hope that helps you.
Love and light,
Jordan
