Everything Will Turn Out As It Should

Hi Jordan,

First I would like to thank you for the website, it has helped me a lot, all the articles, readings, even the daily horoscope that is spot on.

The reason I am contacting you is because I really need to discuss the soul mate issue. I thought I met the guy that was my real soul mate. We met by crazy accident (destiny some would say), very similar interests, humor, and the magnetism was almost instant. We went through a lot to be together, arguments, distance (long distance relationship) and all that comes with being away from someone for months. We have been together for over a year only for him to go on a vacation, come back and suddenly say we are too different, he doesn't feel any emotions towards me, he is not for a relationship etc. He already went through something similar when his father died last month in October. But we spent a month together in Dec/Jan and everything was perfect, making future plans together, having so many good experiences, and the love was there. So much to talk about, to laugh, to love. Now a month after he is gone this comes out of nowhere. 

So my question is in two parts: can it be the distance is doing this to him and he is just not aware, even though he says he is spiritually evolved, I was the only person he ever loved like this, and it seems weird such a connection can disappear over one vacation. I think he just might be not that in tune with emotions because it would hurt a lot being away for months again. 

The other question is if it's possible that a lot of negative energy accumulated around him and he can't feel or think straight? Like an energy block sort of thing? 

I feel as if I'm loosing someone who was really special and when we talked and he didn't want to back off the break up thing, I said I will delete every contact with him so that it would be easier for me to let go. Now I don't know if maybe I should've kept in touch just to get him back in tune with his heart and feelings.

As for me personally, I feel its a terrible waste, that all this is wrong (that gut feeling telling you it's just not right) because he was someone and maybe the only person I could relate to from the depth of my soul. We went through a lot to be together, so I'm thinking if I should do something about it or just let him go on the path he says he wants. I'm also thinking if I can help him come around from a distance, just letting him go and seeing if he will get it after a while? Or was I just fooling myself all along? I really thought he was my soul mate because after my previous relationship (guided by your articles) I knew exactly what I wanted: a guy that's passionate, decisive, caring, independent, smart, spiritual at least a bit, with similar interests and humor etc. I got all of it except the yang part was a bit disappointing at times: smoker, had a lot of women before he realized it's useless, not clear on some issues in his life and obviously problems with the emotional side of him. But that's life and I feel I don't want or need anyone else currently than him. Any insight on these questions from your view would be of great help to me, since I can't explain this to anyone because most of my friends are not spiritually interested and this guy was but I obviously cut all contact with him, so I really hope you can guide me out of this. I really need help to understand what to do.


Thank You,
Vanessa

Hello Vanessa,

Many relationships, especially soul mate offer a wonderful opportunity for our souls to evolve.  A soul mate relationship is beyond the typical bond that one feels with another, it has a connection that runs deeper and typically unites on another level.

When the connection we feel to another is strong, which from what you explain you experience with the gentleman you are writing about, often our mind and hearts believe we've found the one and create a future that is forever.  This is at times the case, but at other times, it is not.  Spiritual evolution and are use of free will ultimately determine our future destiny, including who we share our path in life with. But every person has free will and how it is used is ultimately up to each individual.   A lasting soul mate connection relies on two people being in sync in many aspects, and sometimes circumstances lead to the end of a relationship. 

Perhaps this gentleman will reenter your life, or perhaps he was meant to enter your life to teach you something and help you along your path.  I can't answer these questions, but I can suggest you look at the relationship and all it brought into your life and ask yourself, what's next. You can only control yourself and your feelings and actions, so how do you think your energy can be spent turning this current situation into a positive growth experience for yourself?  Do you think investing energy to improve yourself and your evolution will help create a future where you live happily with your soul mate?  Perhaps you may want to re-read the pages on How to Find a soul mate.  The last page is often overlooked in the step by step process described on the website, but is one of the most important keys in evolving to form a true soul mate union. 

In the end, do you feel this relationship was valuable and in three years you'll look at this time in your life and appreciate all that you learned and experience with this man?  Sometimes letting go is the key to creation of the future you wish to desire.   I will leave you with one last question, Is holding onto the current situation and wanting things to be as you want them, harnessing the power of the light or a temptation holding you back from continuing your soul's evolution.

Remember, life doesn't always work out how we believe it should, but sometimes there are even more valuable lessons learned from how we handle the disappointments life throws at us.  And in the end, often one reflects and sees later down the road, that everything turned out as it should.

Love and Light,

Jordan Canon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

How to Determine the Path of Your Future

Hi Jordan,

Im not sure if the first one i sent went through, my phone kicked me out and the

page disappeared??...

Okay so I been told i need answers for this transit period, Something big is about to happen and although I'm not worried much I need guidance. I do feel it to tell you the truth, but isn't that normal? I just want to make the best decisions That I can. My heart is tooo soft and kind to keep suffering.. I know your report will help me feel better :D 

Thank You! 

Hello Maria,

Answers come in many forms.   Often when one experiences times of reflection or feels the need to change (evolve) an aspect of his or her life, the questions begin to out number the answers one feels he or she has for the future.  With more questions than answers, one is also often led to find answers externally, either from research or other people.  That is a natural part of the evolution process. 

A heart can never be too kind!  it is wonderful that you feel love and kindness toward others.  However, with every yin comes a yang, and perhaps it is not changing that aspect of your soul but learning how to manage it.  The ability to say no is often hard for people that are extremely kind, however enabling is something that happens when one gives in to others demands. 

Perhaps you may want to visit the pages on Spiritual evolution.  The process of spiritual enlightenment, awareness and growth is something that we can use in any and every aspect of life.  So maybe these pages will help you find the answers your looking for right now, the answers your soul is trying to uncover.  But these answers don't lie with me, but within you.  The future is something that is not predetermined.  It is what you choose to do today, tomorrow and each day forward that ultimately determines the path of your future.  Free will is an amazing, yet often under-estimated gift, each of us possess.  When you harness the light and use your ability to choose wisely, the future has endless possibilities. 

Love and Light,

JordanCanon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

How to Channel Our Energy to Build the Future We Wish To Experience

Hi Jordan, 

My partner, Aaron 37 years old & is in a wheel chair and his daughter, Desi is turning 18 by the end of April. Aaron currently lives in a 1 bedroom. Desi does not have a good relationship with her mom and wants to move out when she turns 18. Aaron wants to help, with him being a great dad and wanting to be involved in this next stage of her life, to help in a direction that will impact the rest of her life. Very noble cause, and I have been with him for nearly 2 & a half years and I love them both very much as well.

In the building where he lives is a 2 bedroom unit and that owner, Ms. Conrad, knows Aaron well and has a 2 bedroom for rent and rented just a day or so before,with the current renter knowing possibly that Ms Conrad maybe selling the unit soon. I would be willing to rent his 1 bedroom, which he owns, while he could rent this 2 bedroom and Ms Conrad would have really loved to have Aaron and Desi there, no questions asked is what Ms Conrad stated. Which Aaron didn't know Ms Conrad was renting and visa versa till recently bumping into one another. 

So what I am asking for is how to send energy for him to have this place and me to have his place. This would give Ms. Conrad a great tenant she knows, and has known for over 7 years, affording Aaron a peace of mind to help his daughter, a building that is compatible for him being in the chair,as they like to refer to themselves and are "handi-capible" a place for Desi- and her dog, me, my cat and most important giving Desi this fighting chance to properly be supported as she blossom into the world under loving guidance, which she would not receive living with her mom. 

My heartfelt gratitude for your assistance in helping me, help my extended family. I love them so much and want to give them so much for all the love I receive and how grateful I am.

Thank You,

Fred

Hello Fred,

Charity and love are the most pure and powerful energies of the universe.  Though one can not force a change in the universe with actions we're used to, when you make choices and live life according to the virtuous ways of the universe, things often have a way of working out.  Have you read the pages on spiritual evolution.  The process of spiritual evolution ( enlightenment, awareness, and growth) can be applied to any and every situation we face in our lives.

So perhaps you may want to check out those pages and learn how you can harness the power of the light to work toward the outcome you wish to see happen.  Energy exists and will always help us create the future we wish to experience. It is our choices and actions which determine how our energy is used.

Wishing you the best and believe in the power of the universe and let it guide you. 

Love and Light,

Jordan Canon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

  

Investing the Right Energy for the Future

Hello Jordan,

My life path has taken me through several life altering changes over the last 7 years or so. I decided that I wanted a new path to follow. I now have a little less than a year left in college. I have infinite possibilities for my journey ahead. I would like to know what this next year will bring, in order to better handle obstacles and also what changes I should make to get the best results out of life.


Thank You,
Reina

Hello Reina,

Thank you for writing in to me and it is fantastic that you're almost finished with school!

Congratulations!

I don't predict the future or share with members what the future may hold.  The reason for this is because our future path is determined not only by destiny, but also the energy we invest in creating the future we wish to experience.  Each and every day we are forced with choices on what to invest our energy in.  It is what we do, and do not do, that defines ultimately the path we end up taking. 

You ask a great question when you mentioned "what changes I should make to get the best results out of life.'  Though I cannot answer that directly for you, you may want to read the pages on the website on How to evolve your soul.  This process is explained on the website to help people who visit the site understand the power each of us to identify the areas of ourselves that we would like to change to get the best results out of life.  The pages also give guidance on how to create a plan in order to work toward that change.  Spiritual evolution can be applied to any and all aspect of your life and can help you identify and make the changes in yourself that will help you today and in the future. 

Love and Light,

JordanCanon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

How to Fight Life's Challenges Through the Power of the Light and Spiritual Evolution

Hello again Jordan,

I have a question for you but understand if you don't have the time to answer.

As you can see trough the precedent messages, I had issues with depression and since then I've been trying to change my habits and my thoughts. I got a job at a bank and suddenly my new spiritual work was tested and not strong enough. I've been there for 3 months and a half and had 2 panic attacks and 3 digestive problems due to my nervous stomach.

My question is if there's something to gain trough the struggle (learn about misled mostly) or if there's a point when enough is enough and my lesson should be learned and then move on. The only great thing about that job was the money but it doesn't seem to be worth it as I'm feeling miserable. But part of me thinks I'm just being weak because others do it without problems and I should just suck it up.

Once again, thank you for the Light,

Sofia

Hello Sofia,

Thank you for your patience in my response.  It is wonderful that you're putting energy into trying to change your habits and thoughts.  Doing this shows your aware of challenges you face and are working to overcome your challenges.  You should be proud of yourself and perhaps you might consider being more patient with yourself.  It's common to want to fix a problem immediately and feel discontent when change takes longer than one would like.  The path of evolution never ends and as time is a human concept, overcoming challenges that we face over and over is very possible, yet may take some time.

Have you spoken to someone about your depression?  I ask because other members who write in have expressed how counseling helped them tremendously, especially after they started down their spiritual path and started looking within. When a person looks within and learn more about himself or herself, he or she is able to contribute more to sessions and typically have found therapy helped them overcome the hurdles they were trying to defeat themselves.

Anxiety is the body's way of telling us something is wrong.  In your case, you know what the trigger of your anxiety is and the question you may want to ask yourself is if its the energy of your work environment causing the problem and what is it about the environment that makes you anxious.  Is there something about the job that you're correlating with something (or someone) from your past and perhaps triggering old emotions?  If that is the case, you might consider therapy to overcome whatever in the past is still affecting you.  Often we don't realize the affect something in our past had on us until we're exposed to similar situations or people, which typically triggers old emotions. 

On the other hand, if you feel the environment at your job is simply negative and drains the positive energy from you simply because that's the environment and what your exposed to each day, then perhaps it is time for you to consider a new path.  While there is often lessons tied with struggle, there is also a time when the lessons are learned and it is time to form a new path, taking the lessons and your higher evolved self down a new journey. 

The page and pages linked to the page, Spiritual Evolution may help you if you decide to work on creating a new path of destiny.  The steps of spiritual evolution can be applied to any aspect of your life and help create a new plan, including creating a new career path at a job where the energy helps you grow and evolve to the person you are striving to become.  

Don't give up and don't allow the struggle to consume the light within you.  The light is stronger than the dark and always shines brighter.  It may not always be easy, but I have faith in your strength.

I'm always here if you want to talk or need any advice!

Love and Lots of Light,

Jordan Canon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com